We've just completed 4 weeks of schooling. I have not started James on kindergarten yet, so Daniel is the only student. As said at the start of the school year, I was and still am NOT well prepared at all; more subjects and chores need to be added. As a result, school has been quite relaxed for my student. I chose Ambleside Online (short for AO) curriculum which implement Charlotte Mason's educational philosophy.
Morning routine: He is a having a hard time following the routine (get up, get dressed, put away PJ, make bed, and come to breakfast), and I'm tired of reminding/nagging him. There got to be a better way to train this. I had used rewards before with some success, but it was short lived.
Bible reading: After breakfast, it starts around 8:30 to 9:00. Daniel and I take turns reading selected passages from the Bible, while James doodles in his salt box. The passage is relatively short, 20-30 verses at most. We would have a brief discussion and a word of prayer afterwards.
After putting away Bibles, I have the boys recite Pledge of Allegiance in the kitchen. The magnetic U.S. flag on our refrigerator door comes in handy.
Between 9:00 and 9:30, we start Math at the kitchen table. I'm trying to keep it short at 15-20 min. Singapore Math (2B) Standard Edition is our textbook. Daniel likes math but his math facts became quite rusty after the long summer break.
Depending on the day of the week, next comes History, Literature, History Tales/Biography, Geography, or Science. Each lesson takes about 15-20 min, but sometimes drags longer. I read most of the books to Daniel, or have him listen to audio book, then he narrates to me what he remembers. I place him in Year 2 in AO curriculum.
I simply love those living books (not textbooks) used in this curriculum! Some I have read myself but many I have not. About a year ago, it was an "Aha" moment when the living book idea was introduced to me while I was reading about Charlotte Mason's educational philosophy. I thought to myself, "It makes perfect sense! Aren't those books labeled by my parents as leisure or pleasure books (闲书) living books?" The limited amount of "leisure books" that I loved to read as a child were forbidden or discouraged by my parents because they were not textbooks and were considered useless for getting good grades. OK, here are some of the books that Daniel is reading with me now: A Child's Story of the World, This Country of Ours, Little Duke, Trial and Triumph, Pilgrim's Progress, Understood Betsy, and Tree in the Trail.
Usually I'm only able to do two readings before lunch, partly because both the teacher and the student is still learning this new way of schooling/learning, but mostly, I suspect, because we have a long way to go regarding character training and habit forming. Compared to academics, these are much much harder. I feel that I desperately need to be trained to be the trainer.
Noon is lunch time. Lunch is and has to be simple. Leftover dishes if there is any. Fried rice with scrambled egg. Peanut butter and Jelly sandwich. Microwaved dumpling. Microwaved chicken nugget. While we eat or prepare to eat, we listen to Radio Reading Circle on Family Radio. Current reading is a biography of Nate Saint, the missionary hero who laid down his life for reaching the unreached tribal people.
No formal schooling in the afternoon right now. Besides his piano practice and very few chores, Daniel has the afternoon for free reading and free play. He's very into Lego's now.
James is mostly on his own while I do lessons with Daniel in the morning. He is very good at entertaining himself, wandering from room to room exploring or digging stuff out. Feeling a bit guilty of having neglected him, I would read to him or play with him for while in the afternoon.
While the boys are having free play or free reading time, I do housework, check emails, and do reading and planning for home school. The challenge is how to prioritize all the tasks. Several weeks ago, a minister in his sermon used this quote: "You are what you think." Come to think about it, my choices do depend upon what I deem as essential or pressing. Seems that I need to clarify my thinking now because judging from my doings my thinking is not very clear. :(
I try to have a quiet time with the Lord after lunch clean up, while with a full stomach sometimes it becomes a drowsy time. ".. but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better,..." But alas, I have the Martha blood running deep in me. Running around doing all sorts of things, or sitting here reading and planning and scheduling; that's what I do so naturally. It takes the Supernatural to transform me to be a Mary.
So far, I wouldn't call any of our school days easy. Oh, maybe except for Fridays, which are reserved for P.E. with Dad and outside activities (choir, library trip, and piano lesson). Sometimes I became quite frazzled and the kids knew it too. Nevertheless, I will not trade any of these days (not even the bad days) with our old days.
Friday, September 30, 2011
Saturday, September 24, 2011
James' 5th birthday
James' birthday is September 18. He was very proud that he turned 5 this year.
A dear sister at our light house fellowship remembered James' birthday. She ordered a Tiramisu cake that everybody attending fellowship that Saturday shared for celebration. With tiny candles too! Our family celebration took place on his birthday (Sunday) and we had ice cream in place of cake because we all had too much cake that week.
James has become quite Lego-mania lately, He plays with those little Lego people (and their weapons/tools) all the time. So it's no surprise that he wanted Lego for birthday. We were lucky to find some Lego sets on sale at Target. I helped him pick two small sets. He was very happy and thanked me after we got home. Oh, he also received presents from 潘德爷爷 (an older brother at church who loves James since he was a baby).
After ice cream, we did the same thing for James. "Tell at least one thing good about James."
Dad: "He can do many things on his own now, like brushing teeth, picking up toys."
Mom: "He is thoughtful and thankful. He sees other people's needs."
Daniel: "Hmmm..." Too busy playing Lego with James.
Since babyhood, James has always been sweet and gentle (although lately he's becoming more rumbustious). His tenderness and sweetness tugs at my heart. Could it have something to do with him being the younger one? Maybe. While we were at China this past August, my step sister asked me if I favor one child over another. I said NO, and I meant it. I may have shown my love for them in a different way because each of our children is unique, but one simply can not do a math equation (>, =, or <) for the comparison of a parent's love for his/her children.
What's more blessed than becoming a mother of a child?
Becoming a mother of not one but two!
A dear sister at our light house fellowship remembered James' birthday. She ordered a Tiramisu cake that everybody attending fellowship that Saturday shared for celebration. With tiny candles too! Our family celebration took place on his birthday (Sunday) and we had ice cream in place of cake because we all had too much cake that week.
| Yes, I'm turning 5! A big boy now. |
After ice cream, we did the same thing for James. "Tell at least one thing good about James."
Dad: "He can do many things on his own now, like brushing teeth, picking up toys."
Mom: "He is thoughtful and thankful. He sees other people's needs."
Daniel: "Hmmm..." Too busy playing Lego with James.
Since babyhood, James has always been sweet and gentle (although lately he's becoming more rumbustious). His tenderness and sweetness tugs at my heart. Could it have something to do with him being the younger one? Maybe. While we were at China this past August, my step sister asked me if I favor one child over another. I said NO, and I meant it. I may have shown my love for them in a different way because each of our children is unique, but one simply can not do a math equation (>, =, or <) for the comparison of a parent's love for his/her children.
What's more blessed than becoming a mother of a child?
Becoming a mother of not one but two!
Daniel's 8th Birthday
Daniel's birthday is September 13. He turned 8 this year.
How did we celebrate? With present, food, cake, and good wishes. Daniel had several things on his wish list: Smurf books, an alarm clock, and Nook e-reader, etc. I bought him a digital alarm clock, something useful and practical. Because I didn't have time to wrap it, I played a little gift-hunt game with him, letting him guess where I put his gift. I gave out clues, and he guessed. After several rounds, he was still not getting it. Then James burst out "trunk of your car!" That's how Daniel got his birthday present. He liked it and I liked it too, something useful and practical. We went out to one of his favorite place--Hometown Buffet for dinner and had a mango cake too. While at the restaurant, I asked each family member to say something good about Daniel. Here are a few of them:
Dad: "He has grown a lot and did not lose his temper as often."
Mom: "He is becoming sweeter. He's willing and quick to admit his wrongdoing."
James. "He plays with me."
Dad and mom also prayed for Daniel that he will grow bigger, stronger, and wiser in the coming year.
It's hard to believe that he is already 8 years old. The tiny little thing that entered the world with a full head of hair and a very loud cry. The extremely chubby baby who crawled through the hall way like a champion and who clung to mommy like a magnet. The hot-tempered toddler who tested his parent's limits again and again. The kindergartner who loved to draw and play basketball. The first grader who struggled with classroom and home rules. The second grader who excelled in math and cannot resist origami.
God, thank you for putting this precious little people into my care. What a blessing to be a mother!
How did we celebrate? With present, food, cake, and good wishes. Daniel had several things on his wish list: Smurf books, an alarm clock, and Nook e-reader, etc. I bought him a digital alarm clock, something useful and practical. Because I didn't have time to wrap it, I played a little gift-hunt game with him, letting him guess where I put his gift. I gave out clues, and he guessed. After several rounds, he was still not getting it. Then James burst out "trunk of your car!" That's how Daniel got his birthday present. He liked it and I liked it too, something useful and practical. We went out to one of his favorite place--Hometown Buffet for dinner and had a mango cake too. While at the restaurant, I asked each family member to say something good about Daniel. Here are a few of them:
Dad: "He has grown a lot and did not lose his temper as often."
Mom: "He is becoming sweeter. He's willing and quick to admit his wrongdoing."
James. "He plays with me."
Dad and mom also prayed for Daniel that he will grow bigger, stronger, and wiser in the coming year.
It's hard to believe that he is already 8 years old. The tiny little thing that entered the world with a full head of hair and a very loud cry. The extremely chubby baby who crawled through the hall way like a champion and who clung to mommy like a magnet. The hot-tempered toddler who tested his parent's limits again and again. The kindergartner who loved to draw and play basketball. The first grader who struggled with classroom and home rules. The second grader who excelled in math and cannot resist origami.
God, thank you for putting this precious little people into my care. What a blessing to be a mother!
| Daniel is 8 years old! |
Monday, September 12, 2011
Mid-Autumn Festival
A walk of the whole family toward community park after dinner. The sun has just set, leaving subtle and soft hues of pink, blue, and purple above the horizon. Temperature is just right. A very pleasant walk under the twilight.
Tonight is Mid-Autumn Festival. As we were looking at the bright round moon ascending from East, several Chinese poems that I had memorized as a child came back to my mind. I recited two of the most familiar ones to my boys on the way back home. Daniel got the basic idea of the first one after my explanation, but showed no interest to Su-Shi's poem. Hope one day that my children could know the language well enough to appreciate the beauty of these poems.
Oh, we did had moon cake after our walk.
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水调歌头 苏轼(北宋)
丙辰中秋,欢饮达旦,大醉,作此篇,兼怀子由。
明月几时有,把酒问青天。 不知天上宫阙,今夕是何年。 我欲乘风归去,又恐琼楼玉宇,高处不胜寒。 起舞弄清影,何似在人间。转朱阁,低绮户,照无眠。不应有恨,何事长向别时圆?人有悲欢离合,月有阴晴圆缺,此事古难全。
Tonight is Mid-Autumn Festival. As we were looking at the bright round moon ascending from East, several Chinese poems that I had memorized as a child came back to my mind. I recited two of the most familiar ones to my boys on the way back home. Daniel got the basic idea of the first one after my explanation, but showed no interest to Su-Shi's poem. Hope one day that my children could know the language well enough to appreciate the beauty of these poems.
Oh, we did had moon cake after our walk.
静夜思 李白 床前明月光,疑是地上霜。 举头望明月,低头思故乡。
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水调歌头 苏轼(北宋)
丙辰中秋,欢饮达旦,大醉,作此篇,兼怀子由。
明月几时有,把酒问青天。 不知天上宫阙,今夕是何年。 我欲乘风归去,又恐琼楼玉宇,高处不胜寒。 起舞弄清影,何似在人间。转朱阁,低绮户,照无眠。不应有恨,何事长向别时圆?人有悲欢离合,月有阴晴圆缺,此事古难全。
但愿人长久,千里共婵娟。
I am by no means a fan of pop music, but I like this song which took the poem as its lyric.
但願人長久-王菲
I am by no means a fan of pop music, but I like this song which took the poem as its lyric.
但願人長久-王菲
Friday, September 9, 2011
First day and first week of school
| My two students holding handwritten signs. |
Anyway, week 1 has passed and I haven't lost all my hair ;). I stayed up till midnight everyday this week though, just to get ready for the next day. No, I'm not doing a whole of things with my students. In fact, for now we're only doing school in the morning. I need to add more subjects (Bible study, handwriting, nature/science, geography, Chinese, art, music, and handicraft).
Even for the subjects that Daniel is doing (math, literature, history, poem), I have not got the weekly schedule worked out yet. Oh, I have not even gathered all the books needed. I don't know how to use narration more effectively for his learning. There is so much to do! Not to mention that I want and need to read Charlotte Mason's original educational series to really understand her educational philosophy. Yes, I do feel a bit anxious, but thankfully not overwhelmed. Because in spite of all these "not"s, Daniel is showing a love for learning, which is so precious.
| Daniel working on math. |
| James working on math. |
And let's not forget about James. He loves to learn too! I'm only doing minimal "schooling" with James, Math 15 mins a day using a simple math workbook that teaches numeral 1 to 10. Phonics (15 min a day): Noah Webster's Reading Handbook and the first set of Bob book. Besides, I do as much as possible read-out-aloud with him, in both English and Chinese.
Snack time of the first day.
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